Wedding invitation · Bihari

Bihari wedding invitation (Bhojpuri, Maithili, Hindi)

A Bihari wedding invitation is usually in Hindi, with Bhojpuri or Maithili lines for warmth. It opens with Ganesh, names the groom as Chi. and the bride as Ayu., and lists the tilak, haldi, matkor, baraat and dwar puja, and the vivah with sindoor daan. The tilak often gets its own card, because it can be weeks earlier.

The functions

What functions does a Bihari wedding have?

The order most families follow. Every family adds or skips a few, so treat this as a starting list.

  1. TilakThe bride's brother and male relatives visit the groom's home to seal the match.
  2. HaldiTurmeric at both homes, with women singing wedding songs.
  3. MatkorWomen of the family worship the earth and bring back soil for the rituals.
  4. Mehndi and sangeetHenna and songs, now often a full evening.
  5. Baraat and dwar pujaThe groom's procession is welcomed at the bride's door.
  6. VivahKanyadaan, the pheras and sindoor daan.
  7. KohbarIn Mithila, the couple's room painted with Madhubani art.
  8. Vidaai and receptionThe farewell, then the groom's family hosts the reception.

The wording

What goes on a Bihari wedding invitation?

  • Opens with ॥ श्री गणेशाय नमः ॥, sometimes with a shloka.
  • Groom as Chi., bride as Ayu., with parents and grandparents.
  • The tilak is often sent as its own invitation.
  • Elders sign at the end under nivedak or darshanabhilashi.

Sample wording

Written with AI help, not yet checked by a native Bhojpuri speaker. Read it once before sending, and change any word your family would say differently.

  • Bhojpuri, formal

    ॥ श्री गणेशाय नमः ॥ शुभ बियाह भगवान के किरपा आ बड़-बुजुर्ग के आशीर्वाद से [Bride] आ [Groom] के बियाह [Date] के [Venue] में होखे जा रहल बा। रउआ सपरिवार पधार के नया जोड़ी के आशीर्वाद दीं, इहे निहोरा बा। [Family] परिवार

    || Shri Ganeshaya Namah || Shubh Biyaah Bhagwaan ke kirpa aa bad-bujurg ke aashirvaad se [Bride] aa [Groom] ke biyaah [Date] ke [Venue] mein hokhe ja rahal ba. Rauaa saparivaar padhaar ke naya jodi ke aashirvaad deen, ihe nihora ba. [Family] parivaar

Designs

Designs for a Bihari wedding

Each opens live with a sample couple. Any design carries every function above, each with its own venue, time and map.

Send a save the date first

Names, date and city only, months ahead, so relatives can book travel.

Questions

Bihari wedding invitation (Bhojpuri, Maithili, Hindi), answered

What is the tilak ceremony?

In many Bihari and eastern Uttar Pradesh families, the bride's brother and male relatives go to the groom's home to apply tilak on his forehead and give gifts, sealing the match. It can be weeks before the wedding or a day or two before, and often gets its own invitation.

Can the invitation be in Bhojpuri or Maithili?

Yes, on Plus. Both are among the invitation languages, along with Hindi. Bhojpuri and Maithili are machine-translated, so ask someone in the family to read the wording once.

Which ShaadiMode design suits a Bihari wedding?

Thousand Lamps is a Ram and Sita design, a natural fit for families from Mithila, and Royal Dusk opens with Ganesh. Every design carries the tilak, haldi, baraat and vivah with their own times.

Can I make a Bihari wedding invitation for free?

Yes. Free makes 2 invitations in any of the 15 designs, with no watermark and RSVP for up to 50 families on one link. Setting the invitation in Bhojpuri, Maithili or Hindi, and a link per family, come with Plus, ₹2,999 once per wedding.

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